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Information for Parents & Carers

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Below are a range of websites and digital resources gathered to support parents to have discussions with their children around a variety of themes. Please note, BSPS takes no responsibility for the content of 3rd party sites and resources. All materials should be reviewed before sharing with your children.

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AMAZE envisions a world that recognises child and adolescent sexual development as natural and healthy, a world in which young people everywhere are supported and affirmed and the adults in their lives communicate openly and honestly with them about puberty, reproduction, relationships, sex and sexuality. In such a world, young people across the globe would have access to the information and support they need to develop into sexually healthy adults.

Mermaids has evolved into one of the UK’s leading LGBTQ+ charities, empowering thousands of people with its secure online communities, local community groups, helpline services, web resources, events and residential weekends. They also seek to educate and inform wider society on gender identity by helping professionals accommodate and reassure gender-diverse young people.

Mermaid's message is that transgender, nonbinary and gender-diverse children deserve the freedom and confidence to explore their gender identity wherever their journey takes them, free from fear, isolation and discrimination.

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Breaking a complicated concept into bite-sized, digestible pieces.So, you want to better understand gender, or need help explaining it to someone else? Used by — and contributed to by — countless people around the world and throughout the decades, the genderbread person (and all of the different evolutions of it, and ideas it evolved from) is a wonderful way to start an important conversation.

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Outspoken Sex Ed wants to change the conversation around sex, love, pleasure & relationships, working towards a culture that  prizes respect, inclusivity and openness.  Their interactive website, informative newsletter and topical, inspiring live events give parents the skills, knowledge, language and confidence they say they need.

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Families are diverse and don’t look the same for each child. It’s not unusual for someone to have two mams or two dads. If your kids are curious – like most children are – they may ask you about it. These questions are a great opportunity to share information with your child about important topics like sexual orientation and healthy relationships.

Our advice is to talk to your children about sexual orientation and, more broadly healthy relationships, early and often. As with most topics that fall under the umbrella of sexual or reproductive health, rather than having a one and done conversation or “the talk,” it should be many conversations over time. You can dive into deeper conversations as your child gets older.

By the start of puberty, which can be as early as 8-9 years old for girls and 9-10 years old for boys, the goal would be to have had several (if not many) “mini” conversations about topics that set the foundation for healthy relationships with friends, their own bodies and, eventually, romantic relationships. Sexual orientation is one thread of the beautiful tapestry of who your child is and how they interact with the world. No need to ask your child what their sexual orientation is, but rather explore their thoughts and feelings with them as they develop. Things will become clear when they do.

How might you accomplish this? Rather than one daunting, formal “sit-down” conversation, look for teachable moments. Your child might tell you their friend has a crush on someone. That can become a teachable moment to ask questions like “What do you think about that?” or “Do you have feelings for anyone?” And, to round out the discussion to include healthy relationships, I might say “How would you handle having a crush on somebody at school?” and even “What does it mean for someone to be a good romantic partner or a not so good one?” The focus for that question is to provide the opportunity to talk about respect, trust, kindness, support, etc.

Then, as your conversations progress, you can gauge where your child is with their own feelings, what level they are at in understanding and offer that reassurance to them that you are open to listening. Be sure to thank your kids for sharing their thoughts with you. Remember, they don’t have to share this stuff with you. If they learn it’s not safe, they will seek out other avenues to get information. As parent, it is best to provide that safe, loving environment to talk even if it’s uncomfortable.
 

Why is this important to talk about?

Research tells us family support is important. Sexual minority youth (e.g., those that identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual-LGB) are almost 5 times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers. In addition, LGB youth who come from highly rejecting families are over 8 times more likely to attempt suicide than their LGB peers from families with low or no rejection. Sexual and gender minority youth are overrepresented in the homeless population (meaning more homeless youth are LGBTQ than "straight"). The good news is that evidence suggests parental communication and monitoring is protective against these poor outcomes.I'm a text box. Use the Editing menu to format the font, size, color and more of the entire text box. If you want to format individual words and letters, double click the text box, select the text and use the inline text editor.